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Their opinion of your is far more important to you than your own view of yourself. Receiving disapproval becomes a painful experience.

Your entire decision making processes are eventually taken over by your need for the approval of others. You cannot take any decisive action without their approval. You sacrifice your own dreams and ambitions in order to have their approval.

Amongst the negative consequences of approval seeking behaviour are: However, there are common behaviours which you may fail to recognise as approval seeking. Sometimes these behaviours are used as a tactical compromise, to keep the peace, or because the situation is not really that important to you.

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If you do not feel that you can express yourself freelythen you are susceptible to approval seeking and; you might also have to examine your relationships to see if there any additional reasons why you lack the confidence to speak freely.

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Many people will try to claim they are not approval seeking; saying that they are just being nice but nice and fake are not the same thing. And insincere compliments are most definitely fake. If you want to be nice, you hold back from being unnecessarily cruel with your opinions and judgements.

Of course, the insincere compliment approach may have been successful in the past, but it has been used so much that people have now become accustomed to it. Most people see through it in an instant which leads them to have a worse opinion of you than if you had Single woman seeking nsa Lawton your mouth shut. Insincere compliments are Seeking a few things please read fake and contrived effort win the approval of others.

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Insincere compliments are often a sign of approval seeking. However, they backfire as they are easy to see through; which leads to the other person doubting everything you say. As I said earlier, everybody is entitled to their own opinion and to adopt their own position in any situation.

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You pretend to agree because you want others to like you and, you fear Seeking a few things please read if you express your disagreement, they will not like you. Think for a moment about the people you most respect in life. Now, think about all the things that you really like about them. You will usually find that one of the things you most like about these people is that they are true to who they are.

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Then, if somebody is upset that you disagree, the problem is with them; not you. In overcoming your own approval seeking, you will occasionally encounter the approval seeking of others, but it is Seeknig your responsibility to deal with that. There are many ways to do just about anything and; to view just about anything.

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Life would be very boring if we all had the same opinions. It is ok to think different.

You are being untrue to yourself Seeking a few things please read others. Perhaps the biggest myth I experience with time management clients is their belief that they need to get more done. So, rather than disappoint them, you sacrifice your own time and the things you want to get done. Fear of losing approval is approval seeking and it will cause problems in many areas of your life; not just time management.

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But you have no right to blame them. It can save ghings time, energy, money and even sanity. If you have been provided with poor service or a product not fit for purpose, you have every right to complain. I have always found that my American friends are more likely to speak up in these situations and, they are right to do so. Irish people and my British friends seem to be afraid that they are the bad guy by complaining.

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Why are you spreading it? Because if it is to get attention for yourself, then it most certainly is approval seeking. I will give you a rather extreme example of someone who spreads bad news and gossip to gain attention.

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