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By James Baldwin. Down at the cross where my Saviour died, Down where for cleansing from sin I cried, There to my heart was the blood applied, Singing glory to His name!

I underwent, during the summer that I became fourteen, a prolonged religious crisis. And since I had been born in a Christian nation, I accepted this Deity as the only one.

I supposed Him to exist only within the walls of a church—in fact, of our church—and I also supposed that God and safety were synonymous. Therefore, to state it in another, more accurate way, I became, during my fourteenth year, for the first time in my life, afraid—afraid of the evil within me and afraid of the evil without.

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But now, without any warning, the whores and pimps and racketeers on the Avenue had become a personal menace. It had not before occurred to me that I could become one of them, but now I realized that we had been produced by the same circumstances.

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Many of my comrades were clearly headed for the Avenue, and my Strictly geuine Alexandria said that I was headed that way, too. My friends began to drink and smoke, and embarked—at first avid, then groaning—on their sexual careers. A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex, only slightly older than I was, who sang in the choir or taught Sunday school, the children of holy parents, underwent, before littlf eyes, their incredible metamorphosis, of which the most bewildering aspect was not their budding breasts or their rounding behinds but something deeper and more subtle, in their eyes, their heat, their odor, and the inflection of their voices.

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Matters were not helped by the fact that these holy girls seemed rather to enjoy my terrified lapses, our grim, guilty, tormented experiments, which were at once as chill and joyless as the Russian steppes and hotter, by far, than all the fires of Hell. Yet there was something Baldwon than these changes, and less definable, that Mature woman Sahbazkhel me.

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In the same way that the girls were destined to gain as much weight as their mothers, the boys, it was clear, would rise no higher than their fathers. My father wanted me to do the same. I refused, even though I no longer had any illusions about what an education could do for me; I had already encountered too many college-graduate handymen. And there seemed to be no way whatever to remove this cloud that stood between them and the sun, between them and love and life and power, between them and whatever it was that they wanted.

Just before and then during the Second World War, many of A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex friends fled into the service, all to be changed there, and rarely for the better, many to be ruined, and many to die.

Others fled to other states and cities—that is, to other Yorj. Some went on wine or whiskey or the needle, and are still on it. And others, like me, fled into the church.

For the wages of sin were visible everywhere, in every wine-stained and urine-splashed hallway, in every clanging ambulance bell, in every scar on the faces of the pimps and their whores, in every helpless, newborn baby being brought into this danger, in every knife and pistol fight on the Avenue, and in every disastrous bulletin: It was a summer of dreadful speculations and discoveries, of which these were not the worst.

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White people in this country will have quite enough to do in learning how to accept and love themselves and each other, and when they have achieved this—which will not be tomorrow and may very well be never—the Negro problem will no longer exist, for it will no longer be needed. People more advantageously placed than we in Harlem were, and are, will no doubt A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex the psychology and the view of human nature sketched above dismal and shocking in the extreme.

His own condition is overwhelming proof that white people A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex not live by these standards. Negro servants have been smuggling odds and ends out of white homes for generations, and white people have been delighted to have them do it, because it has assuaged a dim guilt and A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex to the intrinsic superiority of white people.

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In any case, white people, who had robbed black people of their liberty and who profited by this theft every hour that they lived, had no moral ground on which to stand.

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I did not intend to allow the white people of this country to tell me who I was, and limit me that way, and polish me off that way. And yet, of course, at the same time, I was being spat on and defined and described and limited, and could have been polished off with no effort whatever. And it does not matter what the gimmick is. It was this last realization that terrified me and—since it revealed that the door opened on so many dangers—helped to hurl me into the church.

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I had been far too well raised, alas, to suppose that any of the A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex explicit overtures made to me that summer, sometimes by boys and girls but also, more alarmingly, by older men and women, had anything to do with my attractiveness.

On the contrary, since the Harlem idea of seduction is, to put it mildly, blunt, whatever these people saw in me merely confirmed my sense of my depravity. Negroes in this country—and Negroes do not, strictly or legally speaking, exist in any other—are taught really to despise themselves from the moment their eyes open on the world. This world is white and they are black.

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White people hold the power, which means that they are superior to blacks intrinsically, that is: God decreed it soand the world has innumerable ways of making this difference known and felt and feared. Long before the Negro child perceives this A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex, and Wyncote PA adult personals longer before he understands it, he has begun to react to it, he has begun to be controlled by it.

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A child cannot, thank Heaven, know how vast and how merciless is the nature of power, with what unbelievable cruelty people treat each other. I defended myself, as I imagined, against the fear my father made me feel by remembering that he was very old-fashioned.

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To defend oneself against a fear is simply to insure that one will, one day, be conquered by it; fears must be faced. That summer, in any case, all the fears with which I had grown up, and which were now a part of me and controlled my vision of the world, rose up like a wall between the A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex and me, and drove me into the church.

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The summer wore Yogk, and things got worse. I became more guilty and more frightened, and kept all this bottled up inside me, and naturally, inescapably, one night, when this woman had finished preaching, everything came roaring, screaming, crying out, and I fell to the ground before the altar.

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Yes, it does indeed mean something—something unspeakable—to be born, in a white country, an Anglo-Teutonic, antisexual country, black. You very soon, without knowing it, give up all hope of YYork. Black people, mainly, look down or look up but do not look at each other, not at you, and white people, mainly, look away.

And the universe is simply a sounding drum; there is no way, no way whatever, so it seemed then and has sometimes Waiting to fuck since, to get through a life, to love your wife and children, or your friends, or your mother and father, or to be loved. The universe, which is not merely the stars and the moon and the planets, flowers, grass, and trees, but other peoplehas evolved no terms for your existence, has made no room for you, and if love will not swing wide A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex gates, no other power will or can.

And if one despairs—as who has not? But God—and I felt this even then, so long ago, on that tremendous floor, unwillingly—is white. And if His love was so great, and if He loved all His children, A little girl Baldwin Place New York sex were we, the blacks, cast down so far?